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Written By Magazine, June 1997
The
Boys of Mother Night
by
Nancy Kapitanoff
Robert B. Weide
sits opposite Kurt Vonnegut and Nick Nolte in the back
of a limousine parked in front of the Place des Arts
in Montreal. Slouched in their seats, smoking, the author
and the actor look like matching bookends. A few fans
mill about the car as it idles on this comfortably warm
August evening. "Thanks for all the great books,"
a woman yells to Vonnegut when the car door opens for
another passenger. Weide knows how she feels. He has
gone from being a fan to friend to collaborator.
Mother
Night, the film starring Nolte based on Vonnegut's
1961 novel, which many consider his most personal book,
has just made its world premiere at the Montreal World
Film Festival before an enthusiastic audience of over
two thousand people, an entry in the festival's official
competition. For Weide who wrote the screenplay and
coproduced the movie, it is the accomplishment of a
dream. Lately, he has taken to carrying a camera around,
he says, to provide evidence that he isn't just dreaming,
that he really did make a movie based on a book by one
of his childhood idols.
When he was a seventeen-year-old high school senior
in 1977, Weide taught a class on Vonnegut. Sunny Hills
High School in Southern California's Orange County ran
an alternative education program called "Open School,"
in which students with exceptional knowledge of a subject
could teach their peers. A year earlier he had picked
up Vonnegut's novel, Breakfast of Champions.
"Like many people that I talk to who are Vonnegut
fans, after reading that first book I said, That's
it, I found my author, and just went back and
read every single thing that he had written and everything
I could find about Vonnegutpress going back to
the beginning of his career," Weide (pronounced
why-dee) said. "If you go back and read my high
school yearbook my senior year, the autographs will
say, 'To the biggest Marx Brothers, Lenny Bruce, Kurt
Vonnegut, Woody Allen fan.' My personal Mount Rushmore."
Weide's Vonnegut course was a credited literature class;
students got grades. Part way through the semester,
the skinny, bespectacled professor with the big hair
caught on that one of his best friends wasn't reading
the books, he was reading the Cliff Notes. "Here
I was having to tell my friend, I know you're
cheating in my class and I'll have none of it,"
Weide recalls with a good laugh. "I confronted
him and he got very embarrassed and dropped out of the
class. And it didn't affect our friendship at all. I
couldn't care less as far as our friendship was concerned."
Twenty years later, after his friend saw Mother Night
at a screening Weide had invited him to attend, he wrote
to Weide: "Loved the film. Much better than the
Cliff Notes." Weide knows how to make friends and
keep them.
"We happen to be very close friends," Vonnegut
says of Weide during a press conference in Montreal.
His remark was in response to a reporter's comment that
the film was unusually faithful to its source.
Vonnegut, author of over twenty books including Slaughterhouse-Five,
the celebrated 1969 novel that made him one of the most
famous writers in America, marked his seventy-fourth
birthday on November 11 (1996). Weide was exactly half
his age. Brothers under the skin, their age difference
never got in the way of an ever evolving, vibrant friendship.
During the past fourteen years, they've shared a lot
of laughs and jokes (some of them pretty bad), much
about their lives, even a crush on ABC news correspondent
Cynthia McFadden.
"Of course he has lots of friends," says Nanny
Prior, Vonnegut's daughter, about her father. "But
this one, Weide, has really dug in deep. I love seeing
my father having this pleasure of friendship in his
life."
"When they're together they have a tremendous by-play
of humor that goes back and forth," says Nick Nolte
of Vonnegut and Weide. "Kurt views the world with
a sense of irony and humor and he enjoys people that
get that too. That's what the connection is.
"I think Kurt is looking back in his life a bit
and Bob is looking forward a bit. And so there's thisI
don't suppose it's a father-son, but it's a mentorship
kind of thing. And it's really refreshing to see. It's
developed into a wonderful relationship, a friendship,
that's delightful to be around."
In Hollywood, friendship is rarely at the core of a
movie deal as it was with Mother Night, the fictional
tale of Howard W. Campbell, Jr. (Nolte), an American
playwright living in Berlin before World War II who
is recruited to spy for the Americans by playing the
role of a Nazi propagandist. On a handshake, Vonnegut
gave Weide, a seasoned documentary filmmaker but neophyte
screenwriter, the rights to adapt the novel Mother
Night. That was in 1990. Nobody including Vonnegut
got paid until the first day of principal photography
on the $5.5 million film, five years later. It is not
the way Don Farber, Vonnegut's New York attorney/agent
for over twenty-five years, prefers to do business.
"I don't believe in free options," says Farber,
adding that Vonnegut always asks his advice on such
matters and usually listens to him. "I believe
if someone wants to do a film or a play, if they can't
come up with some money, they don't have an investment
and it just doesn't happen. Kurt and Bob Weide became
very friendly, and Kurt, because of this friendship,
wanted to see what he could come in with. He believed
in him."
"It was [this] basis of trust that enabled us to
make this film in an unusual way," Weide says.
"I didn't have to face that dilemma of having a
studio own a film and possibly asking for major changes
or putting on another writerwhich would have been
their rightor not making it at all, which could
have been the worst thing. By writing the script on
spec[ulation], it enabled us to say, 'This is the script
we want to do; yes or no?' Ultimately Fine Line [Features]
stepped up to the plate and said yes. . . and the friendship
survived, which is the other nice thing."
Surely in 1982 when Los Angeles-based Weide, then twenty-three,
wrote his second letter to Vonnegut in care of his attorney
(his first, written in high school, was not answered),
he could not have imagined where it would lead him.
But from their lengthy correspondence over the years,
it's obvious he'd been preparing for that night in Montreal
since he taught his Vonnegut class.
June 29, 1982
Dear
Mr. Vonnegut:
Earlier
this year I produced [The
Marx Brothers in a Nutshell] for PBS.... I am
currently developing a number of other film projects,
all of them dealing with subjects that are of a personal
interest to me. The films of the Marx Brothers, for
instance, were among two things that kept me going
through my high school years. The other thing that
kept me going was the writing of Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.
The Marx Brothers now have their definitive documentary.
How about allowing Kurt Vonnegut, Jr. to have his?
. . . I'm certain that funding for such a project
would be no problem. If the documentary had your authorization,
I'm confident that I could arrange for financing immediately....
Thank you for getting me through high school. I hope
to hear from you soon.
Sincerely,
Robert B. Weide

"The first book of his I read was Breakfast of
Champions," Weide says. "I just really dug
his humor and I think that's still a big part of it.
He's just so bright and so damn clever. What I came
to love about all of his books is this combination of
how hysterically funny Vonnegut was and how full of
humanity he was. For all of his philosophical musings
in his books, I think the bottom line is he considers
himself a humoristsees himself as a joke teller."
Vonnegut replied to Weide's letter on July 27, 1982:
Dear
Robert Weide
I've
been out of town for most of this summer and so read
your friendly letter of a month ago only this morning.
It turns out that I already know something of your
work. I saw the Marx Brothers tribute, and liked it
a lot. Who wouldn't?
I
am honored by your interest in my work, and I will
talk to you some, if you like, about making some sort
of film based on it. But there is sure no great footage
to start with. Slaughterhouse-Five is the only good
movie having anything to do with me.... Anything that
is any good of mine is on a printed page, not film.
Maybe you have some ideas as to what to do about that.
I don't.... Give me a ring, if you like....
Cheers
Kurt Vonnegut
Since the enormous success of the novel Slaughterhouse-Five
based on his World War II experiences in which
he was captured by German troops at the Battle of the
Bulge and survived the Allied bombing of Dresden in
1945 Vonnegut has received a lot of correspondence
from young fans. Weide's letter stood out for more than
the obvious reason that he wanted to chronicle the author's
life.
"When he got in touch with me, he was already an
accomplished artist. He was a colleague," Vonnegut
says. "He'd already done good work about comics
and I think that I was flattered to be treated as a
comical person, which I've always tried to be. He thought
I was funny and he was into funny men, and most people
don't approach me that way. They don't usually comment
on how hard I work to be funny. And he had read everything
I've ever written, which is very nice."
Like the financing for most documentary films, it did
not come immediately for a Vonnegut documentary either.
Since that first exchange of letters, Vonnegut has written
four novels and is working on another. Weide has produced
and directed several documentaries on comedians including
W.C. Fields Straight
Up, and Mort Sahl:
The Loyal Opposition. Nine years in the making,
he is just finishing Lenny
Bruce: Swear to Tell the Truth.
"Little did I know it'd be six years before I could
even start," Weide says, referring to a small amount
of money he got for the Vonnegut project in 1988 from
PBS' American Masters series. "Now it's 14 years
later and it's still unfinished. It might be interesting
for a documentary profiling someone to actually follow
his life for ten years, although certainly if I had
my druthers, I would have wrapped things up already."
When Weide received that first letter from Vonnegut,
he was hesitant to call him. "I really didn't want
to bother him," Weide says," but "Farber
said, 'Oh no, you should call him. Otherwise he'll feel
hurt that you didn't or that you changed your mind.
"I remember that initial phone call; every now
and then I would try to say something about how meaningful
his work was. And he wouldn't have any of that. All
he wanted to do was talk about the Marx Brothers. There
is a scene in Animal Crackers, which is in the
documentary, where Harpo is basically beating up on
Margaret Dumont. Well, I'm trying to say something to
Vonnegut about the importance of his work and all he
kept saying was, God that was funny when Harpo
was fighting Margaret Dumont. I thought I was gonna
split a gut. He broke into one of his typical
laughs which starts off as a laugh and then goes into
this cough from smoking Pall Malls since he was sixteen.
You're wondering if you're going to have to call 911."
Shortly after the phone call, Weide visited Vonnegut
in New York. "You hear that it's not always good
to meet your heroes because they can be disappointing
in real life," Weide says. "But Vonnegut was
basically everything I had hoped him to be. It did take
a while to really feel comfortable around him. Primarily
because I had worshipped him so out of any reasonable
proportion. I'm still somewhat deferential around him,
but now it's become almost like a father-son thing where
I'm somewhat protective of him around other people.
"The first trip I made to his house, I remember
just trying to act calm but inside being a wreck. And
it reamianed that way for a while until finally I became
what I pretended to be. Eventually I did get calm around
him. What I relied on initially, conversationally, to
keep things comfortable is this love of old movie comedians
like W.C. Fields
and Laurel and Hardy. The first few times we got together,
most of our conversations revolved around those topics
because I knew it was common ground that we could both
feel comfortable with."
During that first visit, Vonnegut suggested possible
interview subjects for the documentary. One former colleague
had gone on to head the Eagle Shirt Manufacturing Company.
"I remember [Vonnegut] saying to me that up to
that time, basically a man's shirt was just white, or
maybe light blue," Weide says. "And then when
he got into the business, suddenly there were all kinds
of colors and patterns and different designs.
"There was this pause and Vonnegut said, 'God it
was an exciting time to be a man.' And that struck me
as very funny. That's his Indiana roots coming through.
It's heartland humor, but with an ironic eye. There's
an intellectual element observing the fact that he knows
he's just a Hoosier from Indiana."
In search of his author, Weide trekked to the heartland
before 1982 was out to meet with Vonnegut expert Jerry
Klinkowitz, professor of English at the University
of Northern Iowa in Cedar Falls. In the mid-1960s, Klinkowitz
was in graduate school in the middle of a seminar on
Chaucer when a philosophy student gave him a shabby
little paperback by a guy named Kurt Vonnegut. He read
the book, which happened to be Mother Night,
gave up Chaucer for life, and decided to study Vonnegut's
work. "At the time there weren't a lot of market
opportunities for Vonnegut experts," he says. That
changed after Slaughterhouse-Fives publication.
He is currently working on his seventh book on Vonnegut.
Weide arrived in Iowa with a book Klinkowitz had just
finished called Kurt Vonnegut which Vonnegut
had given him. "He was still in his Boy Wonder
phase," Klinkowitz says of Weide, a college dropout.
Enrolled at USC, he had tried three times to get into
the university's respected film school. Three strikes
and USC was out. He took a job in the film business.
"It was his first trip to the Midwest and he'd
never been in cold weather. He had gone to the Salvation
Army or something to buy the most ridiculous overcoat.
I mean this guy was dressed for the North Pole because
the overcoat came down to his shoe tops. He looked like
some immigrant off the boat at Ellis Island a hundred
years ago. But beneath this shabby, moth-eaten overcoat
was this very hip, L.A. guy, so I brought him home.
"The mere fact that he was trailing this resume
behind him with the Marx Brothers, which I'd seen myself
on public TV, I knew this guy was accomplished. And
I could see he was very enthusiastic about Vonnegut.
People who are enthusiastic about Vonnegut are a dime
a dozen. Bob seemed to be someone who could channel
this enthusiasm into something that was gonna happen."
November
16, 1983
Dear
Bob
I
thank you for your Armistice Day greeting. I trust
that you joined me in one minute of silence as the
second hand ticked off the eleventh minute of the
eleventh hour of the eleventh month.... I hack away
at a new novel called Galapagos.
Cheers,
Kurt Vonnegut

December
20, 1984
Dear
Kurt:
You've
been on my mind lately because there's a new woman
in my life, and during that early exploratory period
where you're sharing significant influences on your
respective lives, I've introduced her to your work.
Started her out with Cat's Cradle, then on
to Breakfast, figuring if that didn't scare
her off nothing would. Her favorite line from Breakfast
was also my own favorite: "Make me young! Make
me young!". . . I've had some guilt about the
slow pace with which I've progressed on the film we've
discussed.... Having recently reread my past correspondence
to you regarding this project, I realize this has
been going on so long that its' starting to sound
like a joke. All I can say at this point is that I'm
still working on it and I still desperately want to
do it. I've also had a few exploratory conversations
regarding a feature film based on one of your books.
I've developed something of a gameplan which I'd like
to discuss with you next time I'm in New York ...
Best
wishes,
Bob Weide

November
3, 1986
Dear
Kurt:
.
. . Well, I spent three days in Cedar Falls and I
imagine your ears must have been burning. Loree [Rackstraw,
English professor at the University of Northern Iowa
and a Vonnegut scholar] was a sweetheart and she showed
me your impressive drawings and the Requiem which
was inspiring. [A secular, humanist requiem written
by Vonnegut, it is his antidote to the venomous source
of Andrew Lloyd Webber's "Requiem," the
fifteenth-century Council of Trent.] Let it be a lesson
for those who label you a pessimist. You are a "wimp"
by true pessimist's standards. Now the Council of
Trent, there's a group of guys with an attitude problem!
Good for you for making a stab at correcting something
so boneheaded. I would like to see the premiere....

December
27, 1987
Dear
Bob
How
can I not be touched and flattered by your continued
interest in my work? I now have a videotape, by the
way, of the only visible thing I've done worth watching,
an onstage performance at a fundraiser for PEN a couple
of years ago.... As for Laurel and Hardy [Weide was
considering producing a documentary on the comedy
team]: to find yet another excuse to televise their
perfect works has to be OK, like doing the Nutcracker
yet again at Christmas time.... Two other comedians
who are in the first rank with Laurel and Hardy: Jack
Benny and Buster Keaton. All humanity is the audience
they were able to keep in mind. Almost nobody can
do that, so I tell writing students of mine not to
try....
Cheers,
Kurt Vonnegut

January
11, 1988
Dear
Kurt:
Nice
talking to you the other day. I'm thrilled that we'll
be able to film the Requiem and the speech.... Once
you know how you'll travel to Buffalo (train, plane,
etc.), please advise. I might like to shoot a little
film of you on your way up there, provided you don't
feel your privacy would be invaded or that we'd be
in your way.... My girlfriend of the past three years
and I have sort of thrown in the towel on our romance
but we remain great friends. I got her reading your
books when we first started dating.... I'm really
looking forward to March. I'll speak to you before
long. Thanks. Regards to Jill [Krementz, Vonnegut's
wife] and little Lily [their adopted daughter].
Best,
Bob Weide
In March 1988, with the PBS funds, Weide and a film
crew accompanied Vonnegut by train to Buffalo, New York,
where a Unitarian church choir would perform Vonnegut's
requiem. Written in English, Vonnegut had it translated
into Latin and hired a composer to score it. Weide interviewed
Vonnegut and his older brother, Bernard, on the train
and also covered a speech by Vonnegut in Buffalo and
the requiem performance.
"It was the trip to Buffalo where things entered
a new phase. That was a point where I felt, O.K.,
we really are friends now. It's not about fan
and idol or filmmaker and subject so much as we really
are good friends," Weide says. "A lot of it
was just the amount of time that we spent and the fact
that we were in this town together and had the evenings
too. There is this guy thing about sitting
around at night and having a couple of drinks and opening
up. We'd reveal things about ourselves and I'd talk
about women stuff I was going through and a lost love
at the time, and he would counsel me about that. We
talked about the highlights and the disappointments
in our lives and just really talked like two friends
opening up to each other.
"After close to a week, we were almost like college
dorm mates. Even the difference in ages started to fade
away, and then we just started to hang out. At this
point, it had been five years that we had an acquaintanceship
and over this five years I didn't do anything to betray
his trust. In fact I haven't until now," he says,
referring to this interview.
Vonnegut
has a theory that it is the youngest member of a family
that usually turns out to be the funny one, the joker.
"It was the only way you could get attention,"
Vonnegut says. "My brother is nine years older
than I am. When I was six he was fifteen, so he had
all kinds of exciting things to talk about. My sister
was five years older than me. She had really exciting
stuff to talk about and I had little crap."
Weide graduated high school having been voted not only
the most likely in his class to be famous, but class
clown. He is also the youngest of three children. "That
might be part of our bond," Weide says. "Everyone
in my family is sort of funny in their own way, but
I certainly exploited it more than anybody."
"It seems like a complicated relationship,"
says Keith Gordon, thirty-five, Mother Night's
director and co-producer and a close friend of Weide's
since Gordon moved to Los Angeles in 1982. An actor
turned director, he had leading roles in John Carpenter's
Christine, Brian De Palma's Dressed To Kill,
and in Back to School. He first met Vonnegut
when the author came to the set of this Rodney Dangerfield
movie to do a cameo appearance. Gordon took a small
acting job on the Nick Nolte film, I Love Trouble,
just to get the Mother Night script to the actor.
Nolte's agents had turned down the project years earlier.
"When Bob's passionate about somebody," Gordon
says, "he's very communicative, but he's not like,
let me kiss your feet, let me treat you like God, which
I think would probably scare Kurt off. I think in Bob
he probably found someone who could really talk about
a lot of things he cared about without feeling everything
[he says] is being taken as gospel. They both have very
wry senses of humor. They both enjoy the weird juxtapositions
of existence in life. Even in [Bob's] documentaries,
what he focuses on about people is the contradictions
in their lives. And I imagine that there is a connection
there too in that I think there's probably more sadness
than either of them is very [willing] to let on to other
people."

January
16, 1989
Dear
Roberto
On
the reverse side find a copy of a note from Bob Elliott.
I wrote him saying that my best Christmas present
came from you: those PBS tapes [of comedy duo Bob
and Ray], all of which I've played twice.... The Bob
and Ray stuff is one part of an adventure in Jungian
synchronicity which has enabled me at last to get
going on another book with some enthusiasm. For two
years I wasnt getting anywhere and then those
tapes gave me permission to be, like them, intelligently
ridiculous....
Cheers,
Kurt Vonnegut

November
13, 1989
Dearest
Whyaduck [Weide's production company name]
Where
indeed is your Slaughterhouse-5? Have you considered
cutting off an ear and sending it to a prostitute?
These
things take time. Remember Herman Melville. Remember
F. Scott Fitzgerald, who was completely out-of-print
when he died so young.... It seems to me that your
permanent contributions to civilization have been
substantial, although the paymasters, being thugs,
may never come to see that. Or care....
Love
as always,
Kurt Vonnegut

August
22, 1990
Dear
Kurt:
Well,
I'm sorry that we weren't able to hook up in New York,
but I'm especially glad that we got to see each other
in L.A.... I've been giving a lot of thought to something
that I'd like you to consider: I'd really like to
get a great movie made from Mother Night. No
glitzy special effects, no 20-million dollar budgets,
no overpaid stars -- just a great script and the right
director. Keep it small and stay true to the book....
Keith Gordon and I would like to write it for Keith
to direct.... He's a big fan of yours and his sensibilities
are perfect for this piece.(I'm including a few reviews
of his film, The Chocolate War which he adapted
from Robert Cormier's novel).
Now
there's a favor involved for which I call on your
trust.. . . I want to ask you for a very brief option.
The idea being that once we have a script, we could
set up financing for the film within four months'
time. We can negotiate in advance what sort of payment
you would want for the rights with the understanding
that such payment would be made once our financing
becomes available.... Give it some thought Kurt....
As
always,
Bob

November
15, 1990
Dear
Kurt
I
am so thrilled about Mother Night, the truth
is I found myself too embarrassed to call you for
fear I'll gush all over myself thanking you. I was
going to call on the 11th to tell you that my birthday
present was the promise of a first-class film....
I've already started on a first draft script. I intend
to keep as close to the book as possible because it's
already so cinematic.... Again, my deepest thanks
for the trust you've placed in me. I'll do good by
you.
Love,
Whyaduck
"Anybody who adapts a work of minelike Stephen
Geller, who did Slaughterhouse-Five, did a wonderful
jobI just told him and I told other people who
are doing adaptations, just think of my book as a friendly
ghost around the house and make a new work of art for
God sakes, or it won't be any good," Vonnegut says.
Gordon was an impressionable eleven-year-old when he
attended the New York City premiere of Slaughterhouse-Five
with his father, acting coach Mark Gordon. The lead
actor in Slaughterhouse, Michael Sacks, was one
of the elder Gordon's students.
"I was floored by the movie, and also this was
probably the first R-rated movie I'd seen, so Valerie
Perrine's breasts were also a big moment in life, but
beyond seeing a half-naked woman and that being a thrill,
it was also a movie that even at eleven was very powerful
to me and very moving," Gordon says. "I don't
think it was long after that that I determined I wanted
to read the book it was based on. I was probably about
twelve or thirteen. I think the next thing I read was
Cat's Cradle and then I started working my way
through all of them."
At the end of 1990, Gordon was preparing to go into
production on A Midnight Clear, based on William
Wharton's autobiographical novel about his World War
II experiences. So Weide started to write the script
on his own.
I think somewhere I hadto be honestan
attitude of well, he'll write the first draft
and then I'll rewrite it, Gordon says, "because
I'd done two films where I had written the scripts and
I assumed in some self aggrandizing way that I would
of course need to fix Bob's script." I read it
and went, Oh, there's really not much I'd do to
this. This is pretty terrific. At that point,
my biggest contribution really became more of an editor
than a re-writer."

March
8, 1991
To Bob Weide
From Kurt Vonnegut
It
looks like a good script to me. I didn't realize that
you yourself were going to write it. Comment:
Hoess
and Hess were two different guys.... Campbell's broadcasts,
still to be written, should be worth listening to....
Maybe somebody out there can dig up transcripts of
Lord Haw Haws' broadcasts. His real name was William
Joyce and he really was entertaining in an awful way....
"When
I first wrote Mother Night and submitted the
script to Kurt was when I started to realize that he's
just not very effusive about his opinions," Weide
says. "He will tell you in a few words what he
thinks. From his initial comment on the script, I thought
Gee, maybe he was just saying that to be polite,
because he never got into much detail with me. Part
of how I learn about how he really feels is through
third parties. It's the same way perhaps my own father
won't pay me too big a compliment, but then I hear from
somebody else at a dinner party he went on and on about
something."
"We had the script and we started sending it out
and that became our five-year strange trip through the
halls of money in Hollywood," Gordon says. "We
had all sorts of interesting adventures and misadventures
and deals that weren't deals and deals with people who
didn't really have money and deals with people who had
money but backed out of the deals. The usual rollercoaster."
In March 1994, while they were still experiencing whiplash
from their Mother Night merry-go-round, Weide
spent his own money to continue the Vonnegut documentary,
meeting Vonnegut and a film crew in the author's hometown,
Indianapolis. Vonnegut reminisced as he walked around
his elementary school and high school, and Weide conducted
interviews with him at his boyhood home and inside the
house where his mother committed suicide on Mother's
Day when he was twenty-one.
Vonnegut invited his daughter, Nanny Prior, to join
them. Then thirty-nine, the artist, wife and mother
of three had not traveled alone with her father since
she was fifteen. When she accepted her father's invitation
to meet him in Indianapolis, she didn't know a documentary
filmmaker was coming along too. "Dad sort of left
out that little detail," she says. "I didn't
want to go in that case because it suddenly struck me
as being part of his celebrity life. I'm very shy and
I didn't want to have to meet a lot of people and I
really wanted him all to myself."
When she first met Weide, she says, "I told him,
'I don't trust you people.' I had to get that out of
the way when I first met him, 'cause there are a lot
of scumbuckets out there. I'm a little too mistrustful,
but that's what happens to us kids of famous people.
But Weide just laughed.
"When I saw how they were together, it totally
put me at ease. I really hate seeing people fawn over
my father or be scared of him or that whole bigger-than-life
thing. I realized this is somebody who has some depth,
who really loves my father, who really knows him and
cares for him."
Nanny Prior's time in Indianapolis with her dad and
Weide turned out to be fun. "I have a twelve-year-old
son and I would say maybe they were in the range of
between twelve and fifteen in [that] they were really
good together. They would bop each other over the head
with a newspaper, have stupid little disagreements,"
Prior says. "This was an especially poignant part
of the documentary because these are my father's roots.
There was a lot of joking and I think that really does
put my father at ease. You can't ask him too many serious
questions, so there was this balance of being funny
and then the next minute, talking about taking bodies
out of rubble in Dresden or his mother's suicide.
"Also it was funny to me to see Weide tell him
to do things over and over again. I don't know that
much about filmmaking, but he had him keep walking down
this corridor or throw this paper airplane, and Dad
was like putty in his hands. Now Dad can sometimes get
a little grumpy and I didn't see any of that. I think
Dad was having a great time and somehow I saw Weide
working magic with him."
When Weide received the letter from Vonnegut saying
the Bob and Ray tapes had gotten him writing again,
Weide felt that if he does nothing else in his life,
he had contributed something because he helped get Vonnegut
unstuck on a book that eventually came out (Hocus
Pocus). "Conversely," Weide says, "if
he's done nothing else, he got me started drinking martinis."
Ambling around Indiana, they got to talking about their
different generation's drinking habits and Vonnegut
said, "In my day the big thing was martinis."
Weide told him he'd never had a martini in his life.
Vonnegut made him promise that that would come to an
end while they were still in Indiana.
"There was a night in Indianapolis where there
was a reunion of the surviving Vonneguts still in Indianapolis.
It was at this very Gentile country club called The
Woodstock Club," says Weide, who is Jewish. "When
the waitress came by and asked, 'What would you like
to drink?' Vonnegut answered for me and said 'He'll
have a martini.' I took a few sips and Vonnegut leaned
in and said, 'What do you think?' I said, 'This is really
nice.' It also made the evening go a lot smoother too.
"There was one point at dinner, I think Cousin
Richard, who's in his eighties, started going on about
Jews. It wasnt an anti-Semitic rant; he was just
expressing some observations about the Jews.
I certainly wasnt offended, but I think Richard's
wife suddenly looked at me and then looked at Richard
and started nudging him and suggested he shift topics.
Nanny [Prior] was there, sitting across the table, and
we were exchanging glances. When the waitress came around
again, Vonnegut ordered Weide another martini. Now I
really love martinis. I told him, 'Now I understand
your generation."'
They drove back to New York together in Vonnegut's Honda
in one long shot, taking turns driving and snoozing.
The gee-whiz side of Weide is still there: "It
was a lot of fun being on the road and talking with
him and listening to the radio," he says. Weide
had the final shift into the city and took Vonnegut's
instructions to follow a bus. The next thing they knew,
he was driving up a ramp in a municipal bus parking
lot, surrounded by rows of buses. "We both started
to crack up. I kept saying, 'another fine mess you've
gotten us into.' It took me about twenty minutes to
figure out how the hell to get out of there."
The next day in New York, they tried to make a date
with Cynthia McFadden. Weide had discovered her on Court
TV covering the Lyle and Eric Menendez trial. "I
would always tune in to watch her. I didn't care about
the Menendezes," he says.
Before their Indiana trip, he met her at the Cable ACE
Awards ceremony. McFadden had been nominated for an
ACE award for her trial coverage. Weide had produced
Larry Gelbart's political satire Mastergate
and stand-up comedian Rick Reynolds' one-man show, Only
the Truth Is Funny, both for Showtime, and was nominated
for two awards.
At the awards ceremony, Weide went up to McFadden and
introduced himself. In conversation, she told him that
someone recently told her that Kurt Vonnegut had a crush
on her. "I got real jealous," he says. She
suggested the three of them get together for lunch in
New York and told Weide she was in the phone book. He
promised to call.
Within hours Weide was on the phone to Vonnegut. "The
first thing I said was, 'Well Kurt, it's pistols at
dawn, we're both after the same woman.' To which he
said, 'Cynthia McFadden?' So that confirmed things.
I was telling Kurt, 'You may be famous and have all
the money, but I'm closer to her age.' We were playfully
fighting over her. I told him about the lunch invitation.
He said, 'Sounds great. Well have to do that when
we come back [from Indiana]. "'
Weide looked up McFadden in the phone book and called
her from his hotel room. A man answered who "sounded
like he had been napping on the couch," Weide says,
and begrudgingly took the message that Bob Weide and
Kurt Vonnegut were in town and wanted to have lunch.
The next day when Weide arrived at Vonnegut's home,
the first thing he wanted to know was if he'd reached
McFadden. Use my phone, call her again,
Vonnegut said. "I got the same guy again,"
Weide says. "This was on a Saturday and she had
recently left Court TV to go to ABC. He said she was
at work. I said, 'Boy, they really got her busy over
there at ABC, huh?' He said, 'What are you talking about?'
I said, 'Isn't she at ABC now?' and he goes, 'She works
in a toll booth.' Well, I got the wrong Cynthia McFadden
out of the phone book.
"When I told Kurt, he got hysterical. We were both
laughing. Coming into the city we probably saw her,
seeing as we went through every toll booth on the Eastern
Seaboard. The Cynthia McFadden was out of town on assignment.
They have yet to have lunch with her.

September
1995
Bob
Weide
The
final script is a knockout. There are a lot of funny
lines I wish I'd written but didn't. One reviewer
said she didn't think there was anything funny about
concentration camps, and something was seriously wrong
with anybody who did.
KV
In the fall of 1995, Mother Night was shot entirely
on location in Montreal. Vonnegut visited the set just
once to shoot his cameo appearance. Leaving the film
to the filmmakers, he was still interested in being
informed about the progression of the project. "He
was like a little kid calling me up every week and [asking
questions like], 'What's going on?' and 'How's Nolte
in the role?' and 'Are the studio people behaving themselves?"'
Weide says. "He was thrilled with Nolte. He says
he cannot imagine anybody else besides Nolte playing
the role, which is the ultimate compliment."
"He is a wonderful actor," says Vonnegut,
"and what he did to get up for this part was very
smart. He thought of it himself. He got a whole bunch
of tapes of Arthur Godfrey broadcasts."
After the Montreal premiere, says Nolte, "[Vonnegut]
said to me, and Bob was with us, 'It's unsettling, it's
rather disturbing.' And I said, 'yes.' He said, 'That's
good.' Rather than the normal reaction you get, 'Oh,
that's a great ending of a film, I feel so great.' He
saw that to be disturbed, to be perplexed, to be moved
is important.
"It's a very nervous proposition to sit there and
watch work that we've all done. I feel very good about
the film, about grasping the spirit of Kurt's work and
putting it on film. So I felt really good just to be
sitting with those guys. The difficulty is when the
lights come up because now you fall out of the story
that was being told and now you're kind of naked and
people are staring at you. Kurt and I immediatelyhe
went for his Pall Malls and I went for my Marlboros."
Though Vonnegut had seen an early cut of the film on
video, he had not seen the finished film until the Montreal
premiere. Invited to earlier screenings in New York,
he didn't want to go, he says. "It was just too
scary. I finally went to Montreal because that was my
responsibility. You feel responsible for what the actors
are saying and doing. Very guilt inspiring; my God,
did I do this to these people?"
Nanny Prior did attend one of the early screenings of
Mother Night. There's so much in that movie,
and so much of my father, of his essence and his humor,"
she says. "It's incredibly romantic and incredibly
dark and that's how I could describe my father in a
nutshell in growing up with him. This movie really captures
what my father meant to put across in his books. I think
Mother Night is really the most personal of any
of his books."
I
think there's an awful lot of Kurt Vonnegut in that
character, Campbellsomeone who appreciates the
paradox of language and the accidents of race and the
horror of war and who feels it so deeply," says
Loree Rackstraw, a student of Vonnegut's at the University
of Iowa's Writers' Workshop in 1965 who became an authority
on Vonnegut's work. She retired this year as professor
of English at the University of Northern Iowa.
"He lives the paradox of life so close to the surface,
and by that I mean the contradiction that is true,"
she says. "His whole life he's had to face that
in one way or anotherthe paradox of being a German
American during World War II and the accident of being
captured in the Battle of the Bulge and ending up in
prison and getting blasted by your own air force. I
think there have been crazy accidents in his life that
have put him in a position of almost being two persons
at the same timehaving to face his mother's suicide
on Mother's Day. One irony after another. I think his
vision is quite dark. To keep yourself alive by having
a way of laughing when you're at your very lowest point
requires an enormous amount of energy and intelligence."

March
3, 1996
Dear
Bob
Home
from Sacramento to find your FAX awaiting. I have
no illusions about the prospects for Mother Night
as a money-maker, nor about the attractiveness of
properties of mine written so long ago. My life at
this point is a garage sale on the edge of a high
speed superhighway.... I will be the luckiest man
in the world again if you write a script for Sirens,
and you are crazy enough to do that....
Love
as always,
K
Vonnegut
refers to Weide's next project, adapting Vonnegut's
Sirens of Titan
He wants the same deal: a handshake and the opportunity
to write a spec script faithful to the book, without
interference from Hollywood executives.

March
3, 1996
Dear
K
I
just stepped in at 1:30 A.M. Saturday night (Sunday
morning) and found your very moving fax which has
left me a bit choked up on several counts.... By writing
Sirens now, I'm only attempting to keep the illusion
going a little longer before people find out that
I have no original ideas of my own. Fuck Hollywood.
The fact that all your books are still in print means
a lot more than whether some asshole studio executive
knows the difference between Mother Night and
Night, Mother. If I had a dollar for every
college kid who flips out when he learns I know you
and swears to have read everything you've ever written,
I could finance these movies myself.... So, in fact,
it is I who am the luckiest man in the world. Secondly,
for the opportunity to collaborate with you and throw
our bastard children out into the cosmos in an attempt
to warp yet more minds.... but primarily for our friendship....
As
ever,
Whyaduck
"The amazing thing now is he acts as though he's
indebted to me for putting in the time and effort [to
get] Mother Night made into a film," Weide
says. "I could never write anything like that from
scratch. I feel like he allowed me to use his genius
to leapfrog myself into the feature film business."
Since Mother Night, Weide has written the screen
version of Lois Lowry's The Giver for Jeff Bridges.
"[Vonnegut's] always writing me and telling me
just how grateful he is to me, and I just think that's
the funniest joke in the world."
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